Why Standing out can bring Amazing Results !

Mars Dorian personal branding himself

by MarsDorian

The last weekend was a-w-e-s-o-m-e.

Why ?

Because I made it awesome.

And before you frown, let me explain.

I actually wanted to grow my blog empire – but even the most obsessive digital otaku has to take a dive or two into the realms of the offline world. So instead of sticking my eyes to the screen, I went out with REAL people (gosh!) and ended up on a Korean birthday party.

If you’re the first, you may…

ridicule yourself.

The Korean food was awesome (Kim-chee) the people were nice. An overall friendly atmosphere, but the party was lacking some electricity –the FIRE OF LIFE wasn’t there, and I thought I was one to bring it BACK.

Being a huge fan of Japanese animation, I started this comic-style posing – performing crazy hero gestures. Nobody understood what the fluk I was doing. It caused some people to frown, some others to smile, but I didn’t care, I was a on a mission – to bring back the fun and energy !

And after a while, slowly but steadily, the energy (and smiling) was returning to the scene, and everyone felt it.

After an hour, it turned into a real feast with loud singing and passionate conversations. People were having tremendous fun – ecstatic energy permeated our bodies – the party became a real party.

Was I the only one who made the spectacle possible ? Probably not. But I was definitely the one who helped the ball to roll.

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  • If nobody’s doing it, maybe…

YOU should be the first ! I swear to heaven, There are too many sheep on this planet, and I don’t blame New Zealand. It’s people staring at what other people do, not being conscious about what’s really happening. Successful digital crusaders ignore what they don’t like, because they’re busy with creating their own world. A maverick sees the status quo, and he doesn’t like it – there’s a better way of doing things, and if no one has the guts to ship it – HE WILL.

I know I was ridiculing myself on that party, but it felt right, and I knew was changing that part of the world for the better.

If you luv what you’re doing, if it gives you that “YEAH” factor, then DO IT, no matter how ridiculous it may look. It doesn’t matter if it’s a post, a service or some kick-ass product. Make it as original as possible (i.e. put your personal soul into it) and unleash it to the (digital) world !

Let your internal passion help you ignore the naysayers.  Don’t worry about the criticism, you can take it.

And maybe, just maybe, your actions cause an inspiring ruckus, and inspire people to follow you:

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japaneseicon Life’s soo unpredictable – that’s the marvel of it. If something is boring and bland, be it in the real or the digital life- then YOU should be the one who rocks the boat. Standing out is not achieved by trying too hard, but by doing something extremely fun (and maybe ridiculous) that blows people away and enriches their experience.

What do you think about this ?

XOXO for RETWEETING and sharing this message – plz spread the luv ;)

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  • http://twitter.com/Altesco Altesco Net

    Yeah, I like this post !

    Mars, you're the craziest and most interesting of the people I follow ;-)

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Thanks,

      I appreciate – I want to enrich the world as much as possible !

  • http://cashwithatrueconscience.com/rbblog Ryan

    I had one of these moments yesterday Mars. I was speaking affirmations OUT LOUD when going for a walk last night. I was so focused that I nearly slammed into a low-hanging branch. I laughed, looked around, and noticed a few people walking and staring. In the past I would have become embarrassed but I DO ME these days.

    What's more important? The insanity of caring what other people think of you or living the life of your dreams? I chose the 2nd option a long time ago and am a much happier person for it.

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey Ryan,

      that's awesome story,lol – it happened to me many times – speaking affirmations (or incantations) while jogging. One day I was soo energetic I stumbled over my feet – you should have seen their faces – epic expressions ;)

  • http://jimijones.com/ Jimi Jones

    LOL – Sounds like a blast!
    And why not be yourself? I've been known to cut up and have a little fun myself. No need to be passive like everyone else, particularly at a party. The fun never starts until someone else starts it, that's what everyone is waiting for. ;-)

    Taking it digital… same thing. It gets boring when we all blog the same.

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey Jimi, awesome to see you hear !

      exactly – having a blog makes my offline life wilder – and I want to convey that message to my blog.

      I want to be the most inspiring and creative blogger out there, everything else would really be boring !

  • http://PhantasmagoricRadio.wordpress.com Tim

    Sometimes the connection between reading inspirational ideas and making them happen in the real world is lacking. I can't be the only one who feels that way too.

    It is absolutely easy to read your posts, entertaining too if I may add, but then you actually have to go down into the deep dark coal mines and start pickaxing away to find that gem you know you're looking for.

    It's difficult to be real, but being real is worth infinite value.

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey Tim,

      ever the contemplator, eh ?
      I think the gem is rather obvious in this one: Find your “yeah” moment, do what needs to be done, even if that will ridicule you – and if the message is inspiring and valuable, people will join you.
      Don't make things more complicated, life is simply at its core !

  • Stigmata1013

    HI, dude!
    I am Sven, you got a great Site~!
    Gestern war ganz GEIL!
    Ich wuerde gerne uns noch einmal treffen!

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey Ziwen, cool das du auf meiner Seite bist,

      Gestern war wirklich geil – super Essen and super Stimmung.
      Auf jeden fall treffen wir uns nocheinmal – wenn ich meinen Blog auf einen höheren Level bringe, brauche ich mehr coole Fotos ;)

  • ralphcarlson

    Mars,
    You too can be a Cantankerous Old Coot – well maybe not old but time takes care of that.

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Cantankerous old coot ? No way, I want to be a creative ray of light – illuminating the world with my presence, Ralph ;)

      sure, I use a bit provocation with that – that's because I don't like polished wishy-washy aimed laser shots ;)

  • http://www.mikestenger.com Mike Stenger

    Sometimes you gotta do something out of the ordinary to get yourself away from all the BS and realize how awesome life really is. Once you do, the passion flows and your ability to create better things goes up!

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      exactamente, Mike – passion flows and magic starts to happen ,)

  • http://www.rosshudgens.com Ross Hudgens

    I like this a lot! I think the world should be lived without fear – if we are real, good, genuine people – taking those stands like you did will never be taken poorly. People will, generlally, respect, embrace, and love you, as long as your intentions are genuine.

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey Ross,

      Yep, if your intentions are genuine (and even better: inspiring),some people will respect and maybe luv you for that.
      I believe only a brave soul can make a lasting impact on this planet !

  • http://www.venturemixx.com/ Tony Ruiz

    You stand out my friend! I'm a big believer that we create the world we live in. If you want to live a life of glory make it happen, if you want to have an awesome weekend make it happen, if you fail – get back up and try to make it happen again. Much luv Mars, you're awesome.

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Thanks TOny,

      just trying to find ways to rock the world – with other people. I believe as well that we create the world we live in, and that it takes lots ambitious and inspiration to create something beautiful !

  • http://www.liscarpenter.com/ Lis Carpenter

    Just found your blog from your comment on blogcast.fm. I have to ask, is Mars Dorian your real name? Have you seen this video about Maxwell Dorian? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSPMgedn-Ms Are you perhaps related?

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey Lis,

      lol, no – Mars is my nickname, and I'm not related to Maxwell – I'm from Europe !

      • http://www.liscarpenter.com/ Lis Carpenter

        It was a joke. Maxwell Dorian is a fictional character that a YouTube comedian made up. Anyway, I like the name and love the site. The energy is infectious:)

  • matthewneedham

    Great post Mars. You really do have the power to change how people react with the energy you put in. For example if you smile at people, chances are they'll smile back….

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey Matthew,

      you're right – I personally call it Karma – what you put into your world will come back to you – in one form or another !

  • alexwhalley

    Now I know where the company stole their tagline from. “A Mars a day helps you work rest and play” Too fernurking right he does! Awesome dude! When are going to build a 'Super Happy Fun Slide?” I know you are thinking about it….
    PS: It's OK to blame the Kiwi's for the Sheep. In Australia we blame them for everything else so…

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey Alex,

      Mmm, I haven't really thought about the super funny slide – but who knows what the future will bring ??
      But I will start making some inspirational videos in the next months !

      BTW, I met some Kiwis in my life (while living in Australia) and they are the kindest people !!

  • http://entrepreneurblogr.com James Tayo

    Mars, Man you really crush it with your uniqueness. Keep it up. Do you live in Germany, Korea or Japan?

    • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

      Hey James,

      currently living in Germany, lol ;)

  • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

    Thanks Mike,
    They keep coming !

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